Aggression
In The Climb Up
In
regard to aggression and the hierarchical status or position
that it attains, it is important to note some valuable research
being done on this ancient animal drive. Aggression is too often
viewed positively and even praised as a necessary characteristic
in order to move up in society or in hierarchical status. In
this valuation of aggression we see once again residual animal
drives being viewed as essential elements of the human person
and therefore valid for human existence.
But
there is a dark side to aggression ideology and it should serve
as a serious warning to anyone considering making it part of
their strategy for moving up in some social hierarchy. While the
use of some of this material may require a new stretch in
thinking, we feel it offers another way of understanding the
callous disregard of some people in dominating and thereby
harming others.
Conventional wisdom says that hierarchies presuppose the natural
superiority of leaders and the natural inferiority of
subordinates (4). But we need to remember that the hierarchies
of status we create in human society do not in any way reflect
the quality or greatness of the people in them in an ascending
order. In fact, hierarchical strata may reflect the worst people
in a society in an ascending order. It is possible to sit at the
top of some world straddling hierarchy and yet be a complete
animal, as far as true humanity is concerned. Conversely, a
person can live at the bottom of society and still be a great
human being. Jesus, Mother Teresa, and others like them are
prime examples of this.
Hierarchies, in reality, often simply reflect positions attained
as the result of expressing very animal-like drives to dominate
others. Hierarchical position, then, may be the reflection of a
very base animal-like effort- the aggressive drive to get ahead
of others and to dominate others. Such positions do not reflect
the quality, value, or greatness of the people found at any
given level of hierarchical strata.
In
regard to aggression in the pursuit of dominance in hierarchy,
recent studies on the brain and brain function are raising
interesting questions regarding the influence of the human and
the animal parts of the brain in different people. This material
is very helpful to note in terms of the widespread pressure on
people to use aggression in order to move up or to get ahead of
others in the world. It is now understood, for instance, that
aggression is an impulse arising from the hypothalamus which is
part of the ancient animal brain.
Kipnis
even states that "underlying aggressive behavior... is an
instinctual apparatus that propels humans into violent
encounters with others" (5). He continues, noting that
physiological research dealing with the brain's functioning has
uncovered evidence to support the contention that older areas of
the brain contain regions (i.e. the hypothalamus) that control
the expression of aggression.
In most
people there is response and activity in the cerebral cortex and
particularly in the frontal part of the brain which operates to
restrain and overrule aggressive animal impulses. This more
recent and advanced (in evolutionary terms) and more human part
of the brain operates to control the more animal areas of the
brain where aggressive impulses to harm others originate.
However, in some people there is a distinct lack of frontal
brain activity or true human emotion to control aggression. In
its most severe form, this inability to control aggression is
known as psychopathy. This term describes society's most
predatory individuals, according to Robert Hare, one of the
world's leading authorities on psychopathy (6). Psychopaths,
says Hare, do not form deep or meaningful human relationships
and they often hurt others, even those closest to them.
Then,
in an incredibly revealing statement, Hare says that many
psychopaths "find wealth and success as highly manipulative
corporate careerists, as thugs on professional sports teams or
as unscrupulous politicians" (7). Whether criminal or careerist,
says Hare, all psychopaths "share a profound lack of empathy and
remorse for the harm they do to others" (8).
Another
researcher from Scotland reported to the British Psychological
Society's annual conference that "his three-year study shows
that politicians have significant behavior patterns in common
with criminal psychopaths" (9). Politicians as psychopaths-this
would be hilarious were it not for the immense suffering and
damage such people cause to those below them in the lower strata
of our hierarchically oriented societies and institutions.
Psychopathy has long been associated only with the most savage
and extreme criminal behavior such as that found in the lives of
serial killers like Ted Bundy. But this one-sided view of
psychopathy has led to the ignoring of other forms of
psychopathic behavior which may be less violent but are just as
cruel and inhuman. We need to remember that Hare has estimated
that fully one percent of the population has psychopathic
tendencies. Only one in forty thousand of this subgroup will
become serial killers. The large majority of this group will
treat others in less violent but still cruelly inhuman ways.
This would include heartless managers or leaders who
aggressively climb organizational or social ladders to
insensitively dominate others.
Unfortunately, psychopaths, who have no hesitancy in expressing
destructive aggression, may be in some of the top positions in
our social hierarchies. This may explain in a variety of
situations the insensitive cruelty of the people occupying those
positions. Upper hierarchical positions often demand the type of
people who are callous, aggressive, and even brutal in their
treatment of others. These traits are believed to be necessary
in order to coerce large numbers of people to function
efficiently according to corporation or state institution
standards.
The
skills required to function successfully in the upper strata
positions of organizational hierarchies often have nothing to do
with being a great human being or even with being human at all.
The control or domination skills necessary for top
organizational positions are useful for making organizations
more efficient and competitive but the human cost can be
immense. And tragically these positions often do operate mainly
to serve competitiveness and profitability with only a marginal
trimming of concern for members or workers. Hence, in a
financial crunch, thousands of workers are fired while top
people continue to take huge benefits and fatten company
coffers.
I am
reminded of one corporate specialist who is called in to trim
corporate payrolls. He has fired up to 6000 employees at a time
in a single company. His cold response to criticism is that
corporations exist only to make money. They are not social
institutions. But that cruelty gains efficiency at the cost of
immense human suffering.
How
wrong the above corporate ax is. Every human organization and
institution must respect first and foremost humanity, including
its own workers, and not just exist to serve the animal greed of
an elite few. Other companies have taken a much more human
approach and shown respect and concern for their own members,
with product and profit taking a secondary place. These
companies have also shown strong productivity and successful
operation but with far better morale and less cost due to
turnover.
Cruel
corporate leaders dispense with thousands of workers while at
the same time taking huge benefit packages for themselves.
Another corporate ax known as "Chainsaw Al" has fired up to
11,000 people in one company- a third of the workforce. On
leaving that company he was given $100 million US. He currently
has a three year contract for $70 million. His attitude toward
business is expressed in one of his fond sayings: "The meek not
only won't inherit the earth, they won't even get mineral
rights" (Sun News Services. 1998. "Chainsaw Al Dunlap chopped
from Sunbeam" in The Vancouver Sun, June 16, p.D9).
It is
worth noting that the wages and benefits given to these
corporate executives are more than enough to employ the
thousands of people they lay off and still reward the executives
handsomely.
While
not suggesting that all people holding positions above others in
organizational hierarchies are psychopathic, it is clear that
those who aggressively climb above others to control them are
exhibiting animal-like tendencies to dominate and thereby harm
others. Whether psychopathic or not, such predatory behavior is
definitely more animal-like than human. Climbing above others to
hold power over them seriously dehumanizes both the dominated
people and the powerholder. That is condemnation enough.
Far too
many people are into aggression as part of their
self-development. But aggression is a distinctly animal drive
which operates to dominate and disenfranchise others. It has no
part in true humanity or truly human development.
Any
control over or power over others is very damaging to the
well-being of those being controlled. Controlled people suffer
immense harm- emotionally, mentally, and even physically.
Efforts to control others reveal an insensitivity and
callousness on the part of the person controlling. Such behavior
is perilously close to the lack of empathy and remorse for the
harm done to others that Hare associates with psychopathy.
The
above research calls into question the widely held view in
hierarchical societies that only the best people are found in
the higher positions of hierarchies. If mainly aggressive people
climb over others to gain positions of power and control and if
these positions and functions of control inevitably harm those
below, then perhaps we are seeing some of the worst people in
society rise to the top.
These
social climbers are perhaps the most predatory, animal-like, and
even psychopathic of society's members. Instead of hierarchy
revealing society's best, it may be revealing society's worst,
those unable or unwilling to control aggressive animal impulses.
Hierarchy, then, may not reveal the most human members of
society, but rather, the most animal-like.
Hierarchical institutions or status's- whether political,
corporate, or other- do not deserve human loyalty or respect.
They are destructive and dehumanizing structures of authority
and domination with roots in patterns of competitive animal
relating.
Hierarchically oriented societies and institutions present us
with a vivid example of the paradox Jesus spoke of when he
stated that the last would be first and the first would be last.
The apparently best may turn out to be the worst, and the least
may be the greatest in terms of true humanity. Bertrand Russell
said the same in stating that any group feeling themselves to be
better than others tend to sink lower than the rest.
The
widespread problem of psychopathy also raises the question of
the possibility of elements of psychopathic thinking and
behavior being built into institutions and states. If
psychopathic individuals aggressively climb organizational
ladders to dominate others and if these people then take part in
shaping institutional and state policy, ideology, and patterns
of behavior, then you may have in our societies forms of
institutionalized psychopathy. Cruel, callous, and inhuman
ideologies, policies, and practices may be due to the influence
of these cruel, callous people.
As an
example we think of economic policies which result in the laying
off of millions of workers in the name of principles such as
competitive efficiency. These policies create immense human
misery but are coldly justified as necessary for competitive
advantage. There are even legal contexts designed to support
such policies. Contemporary economic ideology also justifies the
brutal and callous hoarding of resources by the elite few while
hundreds of millions of human beings suffer and die for want of
basic resources. There is nothing human in such policies or
practices. The tragedy is that decent people who join societies
and organizations adhering to such policies are often forced to
follow these callous practices in order to survive in such
institutions.
Just a
further note on the cerebral cortex operation to restrain and
overrule aggressive animal impulses. The United States military
found this humanity or human emotion of the pre-frontal cortex
to be a real problem in World War Two. Most American soldiers
simply would not fire their weapons to kill others. There was
only a 15% firing rate. A few were doing all the killing.
But the
military found a way around the frontal cortex check on harming
others. Their new approach enabled them to develop zombie-like
killers. They developed a training system that would teach
soldiers to bypass conscious thought and enabled the trainers to
directly control behavior. It was a system of conditioning where
soldiers were trained to respond like pigeons to stimulus by
using rifle targets shaped like humans which popped up, were
shot, and then dropped down again.
Endless
repetition short circuited the conscious thought process. Where
normally people would ask "Should I do this?", "Is this the
right thing to do?", after US military conditioning, people
would just fire reflexively when the people targets popped up.
The
system was considered a real success in Viet Nam where the
firing rate improved to 90%.
In hand
to hand combat training, where people instinctively resist
killing even more, the military uses the same method of
ingraining the killer response. They train the body's muscles to
overcome the mind by physically ingraining the motions of
killing. Soldiers are pushed repetitiously until too exhausted,
until they forget the consequences and just act. It is called
muscle memory.
A tough
system of reward and punishment is also used to coerce soldiers
into obedient and mindless response. Good killers are told they
"have the heart of a warrior". Ones who resist killing are
called cowards.
Now the
US military can successfully train 100,000 new killers a year.
But they still can not make people like it. The sad result is
widespread post traumatic stress syndrome- a lot of really
messed up people. When you destroy people's humanity, then you
can expect psychopathology.
This
new approach to controlling human beings raises some questions.
If you can damage young lives by abuse and that leads to violent
adults, then what is the military doing to human brains on a
massive scale? Are they training people to shut down the frontal
part of the brain that acts to prevent inhumanity toward others?
Is this not the creation of a condition similar to psychopathy?
(Discovery Channel, Nov. 2, 1998, 7 p.m. PST).
The
Vertical Always Corrupts
Kipnis
also thoroughly exposes the callousness of powerholders in his
well documented book (10). He has argued effectively that people
in positions above others are inevitably transformed into
viewing themselves as better than those below them and they
inevitably tend to devalue people below themselves in the
hierarchical strata. It is impossible, he argues, to move up in
a hierarchy or in social status (e.g. in wealth, fame, or power)
and not be corrupted in some way as a human being.
Kipnis
repeatedly notes that those in positions of power over others
inevitably grow to feel superior to those below them. These
people then tend to treat others as less than fully human, as
mere objects of manipulation. Kipnis also notes that it is
mainly aggressive and power hungry people who seek such
positions over others. This raises the same concerns Hare raised
about psychopathy.
This
material has been noted in order to clearly make the point that
it is impossible to become fully human and to relate humanly in
hierarchical relationships or institutions. It is impossible to
experience and to express genuine human love in vertically
oriented relationships. Any vertically oriented relationship
with its attendant control inevitably destroys true human
feeling, human relating, and human development. Kipnis has noted
this in showing that the entry of power into any human
relationship inevitably precludes the expression of compassion
in such a relationship. Vertical arrangements of relationships
simply must be ended if we are ever to grow and progress toward
true human existence.
Control
in any form over another person is one of the most perverted and
inhuman things that a human being can ever do to another human
being. There is no way that control can be validated or made to
appear less destructive by labeling it as leadership or social
influence or persuasion. It is simply ugly animal-like behavior
that always harms the person controlled.
In view
of this, it is a great waste of effort and expense to constantly
send managers and directors to training seminars to try to make
them better leaders in the hope this might improve employee
relationships and thereby improve company performance. This only
avoids the essential issue at the root of much organizational
and group conflict which is the human demand for uncoerced
relating and for full control over personal life and destiny. It
is a waste of effort to try to improve power relationships. The
only humane thing to do is to eliminate them entirely from
groups.
Humanity as Wimpiness
Kipnis
notes that Jesus' message of renouncing coercion and control to
treat people humanely is today considered naive and even
half-witted (11). His example of not aggressively climbing the
hierarchical systems of his day is so out of step with the
aggressive machismo of current world culture as to be seen as
absolutely wimpy, if not stupid. It is behavior so alien to an
aggressive and competitive animal-like social order that it
simply is incomprehensible to most people.
This
may explain why Jesus was eventually transformed by his
followers into a powerful Lord ruling his subjects from the
pinnacle of all hierarchies. This view of God more naturally
suits the animal drive in people to control others. Such a view
of God also can be readily used to validate the most inhuman
domination and treatment of others.
In
societies which promote aggression, achievement, success, and
winning over others as natural behavior essential to survival
and success, it is hard to see the point of unselfish and
nondominating lives such as those of Jesus, Ghandi or mother
Teresa.
Also,
the self-esteem of most men today is so entirely linked to
aggression and strength, says Kipnis, that most men only
consider themselves real men through aggressive domination of
others whether in the workplace, the home, or at play (12).
Consequently, the contemporary warrior God who brutally and
omnipotently crushes all opposition with his iron fist quite
nicely suits the tough attitude of modern males. This is the God
often called upon to help winners crush their opponents in
sports, war, and the business world.
But
winning is not an idea or practice that is inspired by the human
God. Winning is often just another expression of animal-like
aggression and domination. We must be careful that we do not
defile ideas of God with these animal-like traits. Prayer to God
to help beat an opponent is wasted air and energy for it
violates the essential nature of God as nonaggressively human.
This
supreme value of Western culture- the drive to win- needs to be
thoroughly questioned. This aggressive drive has produced an
obsession in Western cultures with categorizing people and their
performance. We label people with first/second/third etc.,
winners/losers, success/defeat, and so on. Why categorize people
in such a manner? Why not just accept and enjoy the diverse
contribution of all people without making them feel that they
are failures because they did not aggressively compete to beat
all others?
In this
regard, it may be useful to note that the answer to male
aggressiveness is not for men to discover their feminine side.
Nor is it a solution for subservient women to break free of
their subservience by learning the aggressive ways of their male
counterparts. These solutions only promise more polarizing
conflict. Instead, all of us need to leave animal behavior
behind and learn what it means to become more human. That alone
unites humanity.
Kipnis
urges the development of culture and changes in genetic makeup
to restrain man's aggressive nature (13). He notes, as Hare
does, that more aggressive people have abnormal EEG brain
patterns. But he holds forth the hope that "the growth and
strengthening of the intellect will eventually master
instinctual life" (14).
One
final thought on aggression. Many people aggressively scramble
to the top in going after wealth, fame, or raw power and then
thank God for their success. The implication is that God is
somehow responsible for their 'success'. It was predestined by
God. This is a severe distortion of the human God and it merely
reflects the age old practice of validating animal drives and
greed by claiming God as the sponsor. It is a terrible
perversion of God and a blatantly selfish abuse of the idea of
God.
The
human God never inspires anyone to aggressively climb over
others to dominate and greedily hoard resources and privileges
not available to everyone. That behavior is a denial of all that
the human God stands for. Jesus taught the opposite in revealing
a God who heads for the bottom to serve and share equally with
all others. The responsibility to be human is a responsibility
toward others.
This
truth Jesus revealed about God serving, also renders nonsense
all the talk of politicians about serving people. With
excessively fat guaranteed pension plans and abundant benefits
at the expense of hardworking taxpayers, political suits are not
serving anyone but themselves. The human God has never climbed
to the top of any social order to occupy a position of power
over others. Contemporary political office too often represents
the very opposite of true humanity.
Just a
word for political and managerial types used to access to
sufficient benefits, security, and resources for a comfortable
lifestyle. If you have any genuine human feeling left, then try
to get a feel for the insecurity and desperation of this citizen
below, who lives in the bottom strata of one of our
hierarchically oriented social orders.
Her
letter was to the editor of a local paper to complain about pay
raises for city councilors who sit in control of taxpayers
hard-earned dollars. Try to feel her frustration and
helplessness and maybe, just maybe there is still hope that you
may try to change and give up that selfish control over
resources and opportunities not available to people like her,
living powerlessly at the very bottom of society.
She
says in her letter entitled "Get Real About Jobs, Councilors":
"Maybe the members of council should get in touch with the 'real
world' and realize that unemployment is becoming the biggest and
most serious issue this country (Canada) is facing. There are
many of us who are actively and in some cases, desperately
either looking for work or afraid we will lose what work we have
now.
"There
are also those of us who would rather die than go on welfare...
and because we are unable to find full-time work, we are trying
to balance at least two part-time jobs, and may do many other
things such as housecleaning, baby-sitting, and if there is
room, taking in foreign students.
"Does
council have any idea how much time and work that type of
survival takes? Perhaps council should look at how much
part-time jobs are paying lately... Why doesn't he (a council
member wanting a raise) try and raise a family on between $7 and
$8 per hour, the going rate in jobs today. I suggest to council
that most of us would give anything for a full-time job that
pays (the current rate council members were getting)" (15). Her
struggle reflects the powerlessness and frustration of many
others at the bottom of contemporary social orders.
Love,
Love, Love
In
thinking of the idea of the quality of people being reflected in
hierarchical positions, we need to remember exactly what it is
that makes any person great or good. Only a relatively few
people possess the skills, heritage, or luck which give them an
advantage in the modern competitive social orders and therefore
a chance to climb social hierarchies. Those skills enable such
people to use the hierarchical arrangement of our societies to
dominate others through access to increased power, wealth, or
fame. But those competitive skills do not make them better
persons.
All
that is necessary to make one a decent person and a success in
life is equally available to every human being. That thing, as
noted earlier, is normal human love. It is the most humanizing
of all emotions and practices.
Love is
the only thing that ultimately matters in life. Everyone can
attain fully to this one essential for true human existence.
Special training or education are not required to become an
expert in love, to excel in love. And there is no limit to the
growth any human can experience or how far they can creatively
explore in the area of love. There are also no prerequisites in
terms of special status or resources needed to accomplish love.
We need
to always remember that you can gain immense wealth and power
and yet abjectly fail at human relationships which then makes
one a total human failure. Conversely, if you succeed at loving
others, even without gaining any wealth or power, then you are a
human success, a true winner at humanity, which alone matters in
life.
Love
can be expressed in infinitely unique ways by every person. It
need not be expressed through an institution or some special
office, calling or vocation such as in religion. These are not
more special or sacred forums for expressing love. The only
forum necessary to express human love is daily life.
The
above mentioned religious avenues have only tended to distort
human love by placing it within hierarchical relationships and
arrangements of domination. But love in a vertical orientation
is no longer human love. In fact, enough evidence now exists to
prove that love can never exist and operate in any relationship
where power or control enters. Love is a purely horizontal
reality.
Denying
Self
Jesus
radically redefined love during his few years on earth. In doing
so, he exposed the animal-like nature of a human existence that
was oriented toward a selfish, competitive struggle to gain more
material good or power for one's self and one's family.
Jesus
revealed that true human greatness did not lie in the endless
striving to move upward in status or in the endless struggle to
accumulate more material resources. Rather, true humanity was to
be found in the denial of this animal urge to control more
resources or opportunities than others. In the God we see in
Jesus, true human feelings and drives would lead people to work
for the greater good of all human beings and all life.
Aside
from the humanity of selflessness, on a personal level
self-denial offers some very healthy benefits. One wise old
preacher once said that for people with a personal problem, such
as depression, to focus on that problem through such things as
praying about it, may only intensify the problem instead of
leading to healing. Too much self-focus on how I am feeling and
doing can be harmful. Instead, in many cases healing is to be
found in becoming involved in helping others, in becoming
concerned about other's needs and feelings. Why does this work?
Because in becoming interested in others, we are fulfilling the
true nature of our humanity which is to be community oriented or
oriented to others. To focus too intensely on ourselves to the
neglect of others can actually cause damage to ourselves. Great
healing and liberation from personal problems can be found in
getting involved with the greater good of human community.
The
book, The Art Of Intimacy, also notes that too much focus on
oneself leads to destructive imbalance in human psychology.
This
teaching about denying oneself in order to sacrifice and
contribute to the greater good is almost unheard of today from
wealthy religious leaders who control massive fortunes within
religious organizations. The only time it is ever heard, is in
the context of berating followers to contribute more to the
religious organization. It is also rarely heard from the wealthy
in any area of life except as a token tax break measure.
But if
we are ever to deal realistically with poverty and the suffering
of billions of human beings, then we must take radical action to
end this perverse trend in our societies of the elite few
controlling ever increasing resources far beyond what they need
for their own comfortable survival. More damaging is the fact
that control of wealth or resources gives some people tremendous
power over others.
Also,
if we are going to save critical resources for future
generations, then there will have to be more serious effort at
radical sacrifice in terms of decreases in consumption by
everyone, especially decreases by those of us living in
relatively more affluent western nations.
We are
obligated to create better mechanisms to ensure that all members
of our societies receive a more equitable share of all those
resources important for their well-being and more equal access
to or control over those resources. There is simply no other way
to avoid the ongoing destructiveness of the competitive struggle
for control of resources that now possesses and divides most
societies. The end result of that struggle will only be the
insanity of more war.
In
thinking of decreasing consumption in order to preserve this
earth for the future, we have some ideas and suggestions for
those who control (own) more resources than they need for their
own comfortable survival. This advice is based in part on some
ancient tribal experience and wisdom which may help shape our
own view of life.
Just by
way of explanation, we understand from some 10 plus years of
living in a tribal society in Southeast Asia that so-called
primitive or traditional societies are not always pretty places
to live. There was and still is much brutality, violence,
disease, starvation, and many other serious problems. In
referring to such societies, no one is urging a return to such
existence. But as Robert Wright has said, "to say we wouldn't
want to live in our primitive past isn't to say we can't learn
from it... We don't have to slavishly emulate, say, the Old
Order Amish, who use no cars, electricity or alcohol; but we can
profitably ask why it is that they suffer depression at less
than one-fifth the rate of people in nearby Baltimore" ("The
Evolution of Despair" in TIME, Aug. 28, 1995, p.34-35).